[Scar's response comes a little later, as he takes a moment to think this through.]
That is also something that you need to discover for yourself, then. If you are to be more than a "tool" for someone else, that is your own challenge to overcome.
There may not be a need to even define the nature of your relationship. Let it be whatever it most naturally is. But this... idea that you are somebody's tool before you are your own person must stop, if you wish to consider yourself anything but.
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That is also something that you need to discover for yourself, then. If you are to be more than a "tool" for someone else, that is your own challenge to overcome.
There may not be a need to even define the nature of your relationship. Let it be whatever it most naturally is. But this... idea that you are somebody's tool before you are your own person must stop, if you wish to consider yourself anything but.